15 Questions to Ask if You’re Unsure About Your Relationship
I recently contributed to this article on “15 Questions to Ask if You’re Unsure About Your Relationship” and I wanted to share it with you, because some of the other experts came up with things that even made me go, “hmmm…”
Here are some examples:
What does a happy relationship look like to me?
Am I happy to see my partner?
Am I willing to change?
Why have I stayed so long already?
Do I want to be here?
Part of what makes relationships so difficult to navigate is that there are so many ups and downs and it is hard to know what is “normal” and what is a sign that it’s time to move on.
Steve and I have been together for over seven years now and there are some days I look at him and think he is the greatest person in the world and I want to spend every second of every day with him. Other days, I look at him and wonder, “where did you come from and why are you still here?” LOL.
We all have moments where we feel unsure about our relationship, where it’s going and what we want from it. That is totally normal.
But if you ARE feeling that way, it’s important to take a deep look at those feelings and the thoughts that are contributing to them so that you can move forward more confidently. That might mean talking about certain issues you’ve been avoiding, asking a marriage counselor for help, or maybe it means you’re not a good match.
Asking yourself some of these questions might help you get some clarity. Read the full article HERE